FREQUENTLY ASKED TANTRA WISDOM QUESTIONS
Does Tantra help heal sexual abuse and pelvic armor?
Yes.Tantra exercises have helped me regain the freedom of my orgasm after I was raped. My body was suppressed and the expression of orgasm was dead. Tantra can help anyone to regain their orgasm or even learn how to have orgasm. The breathing and undulation helped to remove the armor and open the senses at a cellular level and help me open up to life again. I no longer feel stuck and fearful. With consistent work the barriers can be gone.
Do I need a regular partner to practice Tantra?
Not at all. To keep love alive is to practice it so that your heart stays open so that a beloved finds you. If the heart is closed from not having someone then meeting someone is more challenging. The heart is what draws a beloved to you. Tantra for singles will train you to open your heart. Workshops are open to all.
My wife is close minded; how can I introduce her to Tantra?
Firstly Tantra has been misinterpreted over the years because of the kama sutra and women think it is one big orgy but, little do they know, Tantra is the key to capturing and keeping their husbands hearts. Women need to become aware of the emotional and marital benefits it offers.A devoted husband can first bring home a book that talks about the philosophy and benefits of Tantra. Don’t start by bringing home the kama sutra pose book. After you get her convinced about its emotional and spiritual benefits you then can further her along. Start by telling her that the emotional and spiritual benefits of Tantra can bring you closer in love with each other and can enhance your relationship both emotionally and sexually. Tell her how the marriage can be renewed, rejuvenated and saved and how beneficial this can be to your relationship and the whole family. Then start out with a phone conference session to introduce her to it. This would make her feel more knowledgeable and then she may be ready to go to a private session and then later take part in a workshop.
In what ways can Tantra help couples?
When you first start out in the relationship sex is usually the main focus. Your communication is open and free, everything is new and exciting. Everything is so perfect and your riding the wave of life.Then later reality and a boredom set in. You begin to take each other for granted. You wonder where the love went and why your not as intimate anymore. You wonder where did it all go. What you could of accomplished relationship wise in a lifetime was rushed and squashed into 5 or 10 years. To avoid this withdraw in the relationship it is crucial that you learn how to go deeper in the emotional senses, and connect more solidly with the spiritual source. Tantra helps couples to take their time and honor the moments that they have together, it deepens the love and passion that is already there. It makes life seem like its forever. To keep your love fresh, it is important to make a commitment to schedule time away and to practice new play techniques so that the passion stays alive.
Can Tantra communication enhance my sexual experiences?
Yes. If you don’t ask, you may not get. Stop thinking that he or she will know what you want. Instead open and communicate honestly from the heart so that you can develop an insight into each others desires. When we ask our partner to hear what we need we then become more open to receiving what it is that we want. Communication is removing the lid. It develops more open trust, healthy boundaries and receptiveness. Communication can open up the orgasmic flow and increase the passion. Communication will get you everything.
What is the difference between Tantra and Tantric Sex?
Tantra is the container and preparation for healthier, spiritual life. Tantra is a container to extend things for his/her pleasure. It practices to awaken the life force. The life force kundalini energy is the goddess energy in every body. It is an honoring of the female Goddess energy, mother earth. When a man sets out to do this, his life becomes successful because it is the feminine nature that is responsible for life’s creations. Tantra sex is taking your time, being patient. Tantra sex is the actual practice of sacred ritualized spiritual sex. Tantra sex is a practice of cultivating sexual transformational energy which happens at a cellular level. One must first start by loving the self and the world around them. Honesty is part of being love.
What is shift?
Shift is the moment of transformation. We shift when we become enlightened, when consciousness enters your spirit. When we learn to listen to the silence of the moment then we are moving toward shift. It’s not about changing but rather about shifting your thoughts, removing the distractions that live within. Shift involves change, but change from the wholeness and universal collectiveness. How do you want to live in the next life; the next day?